Last updated on March 14, 2025

When it comes to the well-being of your children, custody decisions play a big role in shaping their day-to-day lives and future. As a parent, the uncertainty and emotional intensity involved in these decisions can be overwhelming. Custody may be the most important legal issue you ever face.

At The Khan Law Offices, PLLC, we recognize the importance of securing a custody arrangement that safeguards your child’s future and respects your parental rights. Founded in 1998 by lawyers Bobby and Allison Khan, our firm brings together over 50 years of combined experience in North Carolina family law, including divorce and child custody. Our commitment to helping clients navigate these crucial proceedings is reflected in numerous 5-star client reviews on Avvo.

We are proud of the recognition our child custody attorneys have received from peers, but we find even more satisfaction in the warm gratitude of our clients. Winning custody for a mother or father is the real reward.

Child custody decisions in North Carolina are based on the best interests of the child. This standard is highly case-specific, and it involves weighing factors such as:

• The child’s relationship with each parent
• The child’s age, health and any special needs
• Each parent’s ability to meet the needs of the child
• The stability of each parent’s living situation
• Substance abuse or domestic violence

Contested custody cases might require a judge’s intervention. In these cases, our familiarity with local courts, judges and opposing attorneys becomes invaluable. However, we often find that resolving custody disputes outside of court benefits all parties involved. Allison’s expertise as a certified mediator allows her to effectively negotiate on behalf of our clients, aiming for a harmonious child custody agreement that serves the best interests of the children and parents alike.

Additionally, we handle urgent situations involving emergency custody orders, taking swift and appropriate action. We also handle child custody modifications and cases involving grandparent rights.

Family courts understand that life circumstances can introduce the need to relocate after a divorce. If you share children with your former spouse, a relocation can create complications that impact your existing custody arrangements.

Whether you are a parent who needs to relocate or a noncustodial parent, you need reliable information about your rights. Our child custody lawyers can guide you confidently through the legal side of relocation, helping to minimize the potentially negative effects it could have on your children.

In North Carolina, a custodial parent cannot simply decide to move. They must obtain permission from the noncustodial parent or the court before relocating, especially if the move is substantial. Here are the associated steps:

• Review the current custody agreement for any specific travel or relocation restrictions
• Provide written notice to the noncustodial parent about the intended move
• Seek co-parent consent or court approval

If the noncustodial parent does not consent, you may need to file a petition with the court to approve the relocation. The judge will decide if the move serves or jeopardizes the child’s best interests. Factors they may consider include:

• Whether the relocation will enhance the child’s quality of life, including educational, emotional and social aspects
• The feasibility of maintaining a meaningful visitation schedule that preserves the child’s relationship with the noncustodial parent
• The reasons behind the custodial parent’s desire to move, like a job opportunity or being closer to extended family

For noncustodial parents, a proposed relocation can introduce unwanted effects, such as loss of precious parent-child time. The matter deserves careful consideration before consenting to the move.

Here are some critical considerations to keep in mind:

• How the relocation could affect your relationship with your child and the ability to maintain regular contact
• How the relocation might impact the child’s well-being in both positive and negative ways
• How logistical issues (travel, costs, etc.) could make it difficult to exercise your visitation rights

Clearly communicate your concerns about the move to your co-parent before consenting. This gives you both a chance to address potential problems and attempt to reach an amicable agreement.

Relocating with a child requires careful planning and adherence to legal protocols. A child custody lawyer can help you navigate this process whether you are relocating or staying behind, helping to preserve your child’s best interests and that precious parent-child relationship you enjoy.

You want what’s best for your child, and so do we. Our experienced child custody attorneys are here to provide the support and guidance you need to lay a solid foundation for your family’s future. Reach out today to discuss your child custody concerns: Contact us online or call 704-831-7115.